below my two cents about the psychoanalytic idea of one always choosing to love the person most resembling one's caretaker or as more refined versions of this theory claim - the most dysfunctional member of one's family.
i happen to agree with this to a point... BUT .... I also have my own personal (spiritual) explanation for it. ... why is this the case for so many people? why is it that we choose a mate that is like the most dysfunctional member of our family and more often than not try to fix him/her...or - more passively - hope for a change?
i think, we have this tendency built in for a reason. i think, it's god's way of balancing things out...of trying to fix things...of making people help certain people others would avoid. and they are making a change....even if it is just infinitely small, for i believe true love changes a person. ...
of course - this is an incredibly wild theory. one of my many spiritual theories that spring to mind trying to explain a certain phenomena we try to make sense of.
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